50 Self Concept Affirmations for Love
If you can't love yourself...you know the rest! These self concept affirmations will help you find self love as you reprogram your subconscious mind.
If you’re a fan of RuPaul Charles, you know the saying, “If you can’t love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else?” This isn’t just a catchphrase from one of my favorite TV shows of all time. Our self concept in love is everything. The relationship we have with ourselves directly influences how people show up in our lives. The world is literally our mirror, reflecting what we think about ourselves daily. That’s why I’ve started affirming for my self concept in love. If you want to do the same, you’ll find 50 self concept affirmations for love below!
50 Self Concept Affirmations for Love
I am used to men consistently staying in my life.
I am used to men committing to me easily.
I am trusting that men are dependable.
I am trusting that I am lovable/I am lovable.
I am starting to trust that I can develop healthy, romantic relationships/I am developing healthy, romantic relationships.
I am starting to believe that men reciprocate my feelings./I am used to men reciprocating my feelings.
I am worthy of the love that I desire.
I am deserving of the relationship that I desire.
I am loved unconditionally.
I am always prioritized in romantic relationships.
I am always pursued.
I am always loved and wanted.
I always get the guy that I want.
I easily attract available men who check all my boxes.
I am attracting the love of my life.
I am attracting my soulmate.
I am impossible to replace.
I am impossible to forget.
I am impossible to move on from.
I am always the only option.
I am always the only choice.
I am always chosen by the persona I want to be with.
I am certain that I can maintain a healthy, romantic relationship.
I am certain that people can change the way that I want them to change.
I am certain that circumstances change the way that I want them to change.
I am blessed in love.
I radiate love.
I am a love magnet.
I am confident in love.
I am secure in romantic relationships.
Manifesting love is so easy for me.
Romantic relationships always work out for me.
I have the best luck in love.
How to Use These Self Concept Affirmations for Love
How do you use these 50 self concept affirmations for love? I have some suggestions based on my experience and some manifestation coaches who have helped me on my self love journey.
Listen to the self concept in love affirmations at night.
The reason: When we sleep so does our conscious mind, which means our waking thoughts can’t interfere with the thoughts we are repeating and/or listening to. It makes reprogramming our subconscious beliefs a lot easier. While our conscious mind is asleep along with us, our subconscious mind is wide awake, keeping us alive.
The subconscious mind is part of the brain that keeps our heart pumping, keeps us breathing, and triggers our flight or flight response. While sleeping and listening to these affirmations on a loop, you feed a new belief system to your subconscious mind and, therefore, change your core beliefs regarding self love and romantic relationships.
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How to do this: Record your affirmations on the Parrot app. It loops your audio. You can play it all night, which mindset and manifestation coach, Dylan James suggests. Or you can change the settings on your Parrot app so that it stops after an hour of play.
Headphones or speakers? Dylan recommends using headphones. I do as well. I tested listening on speaker for a few days and on headphones for a few days. I had more vivid dreams and felt much better throughout the day when I listened to my self-concept in love affirmations with my headphones on all night.
If you feel like you can’t do this because it feels too uncomfortable, I get it. After a few days of listening to my audio, my ears ached. They throbbed while I slept and hurt throughout the day. So much so that I couldn’t listen to music or anything during the day with headphones on.
I learned through Dylan James that this is our subconscious at work. It will find ways to reject the new belief system because our old belief system is our security blanket. To get me to stop listening to my audio and, subsequently, change who I am at my core (and what I’ve always known), my subconscious created this uncomfortable physical reaction.
I persisted. I refused to let my old self win! And guess what? I now sleep with my headphones on through the night and don’t even feel them in my ears.
Listen to the self concept in love affirmations when doing tasks.
Whether you’re cooking, cleaning, washing dishes, folding laundry, or doing any other mindless activity, this is a perfect time to listen to your self concept in love affirmations. Play them on a speaker if no one is around or pop in an earbud to continue to saturate your mind.
Remember: our subconscious mind is always listening! Even if you’re not focused on the words you’re listening to, you’re still reinforcing this new belief system.
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Scripting with a few of the affirmations from your audio.
If you enjoy journaling and paper products as much as I do, script affirmations from your night audio.
How do you script? Simply write the same 1-3 affirmations for 10 minutes multiple times a day. I usually script for 10 minutes in the morning, the afternoon, and late evening. This technique helps saturate the mind because of repetition. (All techniques use a form of repetition to change our core beliefs.) Also, it’s scientifically proven that writing things down repeatedly helps us memorize statements faster.
I also suggest repeating your affirmations in your mind while writing them down. This keeps you focused on the statement(s) as you write.
Affirming
Not a journaler? Affirm your self concept instead! Take 5-10 minutes 3 times a day to repeat your affirmations. Focus on the words. Remain present. Try not to let your mind wander. (Scripting really helps if you have a hard time with this and staying focused.).
Are you excited? You should be!
I have never felt this secure, confident, and worthy. I have never loved myself this much! Trust me, you will feel the same as I do! You will feel this internal shift as well and it will feel life-changing.
Now, scroll back up to the top and choose your self concept affirmations for love. Hit record and start listening to them at night for up to 30 days and/or until you feel you’re the person you’re identifying as in these affirmations. Some people choose to listen to their affirmations until they react differently to their circumstances and/or until they manifest their desired romantic relationship. You know what is best for you.
Next, choose your daytime technique and get started with your full routine. And be ready to feel better than you ever have before. Come back after 30 days to thank me!